In 2015, my heart started bleeding for the boychild and men because what I was seeing around was not good at all. As the heads of families, men were failing and there were more initiatives towards women who were their helpers and none for the ones in the driver’s seat. I cried out to God…
Is Masculinity a Socially Constructed Identity?
As socially constructed identities, boys and men learn “appropriate” gender roles in accordance with the masculine expectations of their given society. This means that from very early on boys get messages on what it means to be a boy. Recently I developed a deeper passion for my husband’s work – if you don’t know already,…
Far From the Madding Crowd
‘Will you marry me? I can provide for you, I have sheep that can pay off the land and you can settle here in this beautiful country. You can get a piano in the house. I can make you happy.’ – Mr. Gabriel Oak, Far from the Madding Crowd. I was watching this movie(Far from…
Men Look For Business & Love While Women Seek Games & Knowledge On #SocialMedia
A new infographic has been published by Finances Online regarding the things we look for on social media and segmented them between genders. We all know why we are on social, why we engage with it the way we do, but do you know that we differ in the way we use it and what…
Types of men you shouldn't be dating.
Am re-posting this but edited, from my Facebook notes after i promised a friend of mine, a one @Jwaninda that am to post it on Monday after @beewol had taken over the morning. I had forgotten and he sent me a tweet to remind me; I thought I would wake up to @pkahill ‘s blog mbu…
For Ladies; Lies are lies, stop sugarcoating them
“When denial (his or ours) can no longer hold and we finally have to admit to ourselves that we’ve been lied to, we search frantically for ways to keep it from disrupting our lives. So we rationalize. We find “good reasons” to justify his lying, just as he almost always accompanies his confessions with “good…
Type of women, men should be dating
There are several women in the world, that the options are possibly limitless for dating; now this is going to sound crazy for a lady to write about her fellow woman in this manner but i had to… So here we go: 1.) The Older Woman. Now, when I say this, I’m not saying you…