[“Can I call you tonight?” he asked her, as she walked away from the table.She was not happy. The day had been hectic. She needed her bed like a baby needs her doll. She turned and said, “If I am still awake, I will pick up.” Though she knew even if she were awake, she was not going to pick any call after 9 PM. That is my ‘me-time, she thought. I will just let it ring and offer no ‘blue ticks’ until like 3 AM. He held her hand and said, “Sorry, for the bad hectic day.” With her eyes looking at him, the question was overseen. She could see he…
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To My Dear Friend, #Happy2014
Happy new year my dear Friend. Am so glad and honoured that I know you. You have been my rock this ending year. No matter how many fights we have had, we have come out as victors. We have survived everything that has been thrown at us by ourselves and others. We have held each other’s hand through hard and happy moments. With you, my world is more sane and easy. You have made me important to someone. I know you have thought of abandoning this friendship because am not an easy person to relate with but as a true friend you have stayed with me in all storms. You have made…
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For Ladies; Lies are lies, stop sugarcoating them
“When denial (his or ours) can no longer hold and we finally have to admit to ourselves that we’ve been lied to, we search frantically for ways to keep it from disrupting our lives. So we rationalize. We find “good reasons” to justify his lying, just as he almost always accompanies his confessions with “good reasons” for his lies. He tells us he only lied because…. We tell ourselves he only lied because…. We make excuses for him: The lying wasn’t significant/Everybody lies/He’s only human/I have no right to judge him. Allowing the lies to register in our consciousness means having to make room for any number of frightening possibilities:…
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Type of women, men should be dating
There are several women in the world, that the options are possibly limitless for dating; now this is going to sound crazy for a lady to write about her fellow woman in this manner but i had to… So here we go: 1.) The Older Woman. Now, when I say this, I’m not saying you have to date someone’s grandmother. I’m saying that a woman who is about 3-5 years older than you, who has most likely gone through the era of your life that you are experiencing right now. They know more, and are more…experienced in several matters. Fredrick said when I was 17, I dated a 23 year…
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Who are Friends?
If you asked someone how they would define friendship, the answer will usually be “someone who will always be there when you need them, a person who never lies, a person who will always put you first before anyone else” and so on. But who actually fits that description? I know there are friends and true friends. Friends come in many people, but true friends only come once in a lifetime. A real friendship will last, no matter how far they are from you, no matter how many new people they meet, or how popular they may become. To depend on a friend to always be there for you is unfair,…
