Disclaimer: No real research was done in regard to this post, these are personal thoughts and understanding of sex.

So I have been pondering about this for along time what sex means to me and why I share it with a few and why them.

I understand it is kinda of a taboo to talk about sex openly in our African culture but this has to stop,  young people are suffering with sex issues and are scared to talk about it because tradition deems it so.

Anyway today I was going through my Facebook and I found something that relates to what I have been pondering about, what restricts me from just having sex with any Tom, Dick and Harry.

I always say, never sleep with someone you wouldn’t want to be. -Lisa Chase Patterson

Let me first state this, I/you have the right to have sex with anyone I/you want and when I/you want, because it is my/your body and if that person is in agreement.

Now that, that is out of the way, lets talk about intimacy energy while having sex. Intimacy at this level intertwines your aural energy with the aural energy of the other person. You realize before you have sex there is a powerful connection between you and the person you are going to enjoy it with.

Illustration of how you share energy between your souls during sex

That distinctive but intangible quality surrounding a person that you want to bed is what am talking about. And regardless of how insignificant you think it could be, it leaves spiritual debris in your soul.

Example, have you every seen a married couple, or just a couple that look alike,  like they are twins? Those people have shared their souls with each other and now have spiritual resembles.

The more you interact intimately with someone, the deeper the connection and the more of their aura is intertwined with yours.

Now if we leave spiritual particulars in people we have sex with and they us, imagine the sex chain we are all bide to… through casual sex, failed relationships, Friends with Benefits sex and all the others.

Imagine the confused aura of someone who sleeps with multiple people and the multiple energies they carry around….

What we all may not realize is that others can feel that energy while having sex and can repel positive energy and attract negative energy into your life.

Have you ever had sex with some one who left you feeling cheated, like you received nothing in return but you gave a lot? I have… I felt so disappointed to find this particular person so empty, so shallow….

Have you ever wondered why you only get to date and have sex with a certain kind of people? You spirit blue print attracts like spirit blue prints, that is what I believe. So when you think men are the same or women are the same, it is not true…I think it is the men or women who your spirit blue print attracts that are the same.

So how does this sex transfer of aura happen? When you cum or have an orgasm, this is when the exchange happens, the release from your mind and soul to another. You give yourself away to the other person when you explode in them.

Anyhow we all have a spiritual blue print in us that we share with other people we share sex with and because of that I ask you to be careful with whom you share your blueprint with. There are very many tormented souls out there, that crave release and will prey on any available ‘hole’ or ‘stick’ to ride on or ride in to be released.

I don’t mean practice celibacy or wait until you find “the one” or anything like that. Just be mindful of who you share your valuable energies with.

Patricia Kahill

Patricia Kahill is a multipotentialite Christian entrepreneur, Content Marketing Coach and founder of the Content Marketing agency, Kahill Insights that helps business owners create engaging and interactive content items for digital platforms with a focus on returning a desired outcome. Patricia was the producer of SlamDunk Basketball Talk a show on House of Talent online TV, a former fellow at Harvest Institute for leadership and now an assessor there, and an alumnus of the YELP class of 2017. A member of the BNI Integrity chapter and African Women Entrepreneur Cooperative. She is driven by passion and curiosity, been taking every opportunity that has been given to her with an ambition of stamping her footprint on the world.

12 thoughts on “Why You Should Mind Who You Have Sex With”

  1. 1. rock star vs accountant
    2. sex addict vs cold non addict etc one is more boring …. such souls dont mix

    and some thing on scalability( in relationships) any way am still giving it thoughts

    thanx for yeah article problem it’s too short lol

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